Reclaim Your Calm – Anxiety Relief for Dads Who Do It All

Are you a man juggling the pressures of business, fatherhood and life? You're not alone.

Click to play the video

It's More Common Than You Think

Anxiety doesn't discriminate, but as a man, you face unique challenges:

• Societal expectations to "man up" and stay strong
The pressure to "provide" and succeed

Balancing work and family life

Real Support for Real Dads


I get it. You're the problem-solver, the provider, the protector.

But sometimes, even super dads need a backup.

This program is designed specifically for men like you:

✓ Tools to show up in your business, family, and work-outs effectively

✓ Practical, no-nonsense strategies to dissolve your anxiety

✓ Flexible one-on-one support that fits your busy schedule

✓ Techniques to improve focus and productivity

✓ A supportive community of like-minded men


You know there's a great father, in there, but anxiety

and fear hold you back.


Take that first step and book a Free 30-Minute Consultation

Remember, seeking help isn't weakness - it's the strongest move you can make for yourself and those who depend on you. Seeking support is a sign that you're committed to being the best dad you can be. Here's the thing, dad. It's not too late.

Here's what's waiting for you –

  • Practical, actionable strategies to start learning the language of your body

  • This is a safe space to be vulnerable, to share your struggles, and to grow

  • Join the Space Builders Hub, a brotherhood of men who understand

This isn't magic. It's not an overnight fix. But it's a start.

A powerful, transformative beginning.


Remember that feeling when you first held your child? That surge of love, of protectiveness, of

"I've got this."


All of that, it's still there. You can tap into that again and again.

Reclaim Your Calm – Anxiety Relief for Dads Who Do It All

Are you a man juggling the pressures of business, fatherhood and life? You're not alone.

Click to play the video

It's More Common Than You Think

Anxiety doesn't discriminate, but as a man, you face unique challenges:

• Societal expectations to "man up" and stay strong

• The pressure to "provide" and succeed

• Balancing work and family life

Real Support for Real Dads

I get it. You're the problem-solver, the provider, the protector. But sometimes, even super dads need a backup.

This program is designed specifically for men like you –

✓ Tools to show up in your business, family, and work-outs effectively

✓ Practical, no-nonsense strategies to dissolve your anxiety

✓ Flexible one-on-one support that fits your busy schedule

✓ Techniques to improve focus and productivity

✓ A supportive community of like-minded men

You know there's a great father, in there, but anxiety and fear hold you back.

Take that first step and book a

Free 30-Minute Call

Remember, seeking help isn't weakness - it's the strongest move you can make for yourself and those who depend on you. Seeking support is a sign that you're committed to being the best dad you can be. Here's the thing, dad. It's not too late.

Here's what's waiting for you –

  • Practical, actionable strategies to start learning the language of your body

  • This is a safe space to be vulnerable, to admit your struggles, and to grow

  • Join a brotherhood of men who understand, who are ready to lift you up

This isn't magic. It's not an overnight

fix. But it's a start. A powerful,

transformative beginning.


Remember that feeling when you first held your child? That surge of love, of protectiveness, of

"I've got this."
All of that, it's still there.

You can tap into that again and again.

You can be the dad who's there, really present for bedtime stories.


You can be the partner with capacity to share the emotional load.


You can be the man who walks in the door bringing home peace.


You can be the father you always knew you could

be. It starts here. It starts now.

You can be the dad who's there, really present for bedtime stories.


You can be the partner with capacity to share the emotional load.


You can be the man who walks in the door bringing home peace.


You can be the father you

always knew you could be.

It starts here. It starts now.

The father’s heart

Patience flows like a river

Connection before correction

Ability to make difficult look easy

Strength wrapped around innocence

To love with, instead of because

You were made for this

The "I'm all in" dad

  • Get the secret sauce – The Art of Showing Up, Transformation Pyramid, and the Facilitation Hierarchy

  • 9 weeks of one-on-one guidance calls (to make sure all of this stuff sticks)

  • Weekly group calls and office hours in the Space Builders Hub

  • Bonus – Lifetime access to our summit


No contracts. No surprise fees.

A life well lived isn't all of a sudden

The slope usually goes unnoticed

Then, one day, you find yourself

at the summit of something that started long ago

Looking out, not out of breath but full of wonder

Maybe it's not about the mountain

Maybe it's the courage to climb

Frequently asked questions

Who do I support?

Skull Games is a 100% Veteran founded 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. Their team of professionals have worked in counter sex trafficking for over a decade.

Some people believe sex trafficking only happens in other countries or in “bad neighborhoods,” but it’s happening right here in our communities. Anyone with access to the internet and a phone can order a girl just like they would a pizza.

The men and women of Skull Games couldn’t just stay on the sidelines and watch this go unchecked.

Victims of sex trafficking deserve nothing short of our undivided attention.

What inspires me?

“The heart of a man is like deep water” Proverbs 20:5

I set out to discover what was in my heart.

When I discovered that we create from our words and the quality of our words determine the quality of our reality, I set out to understand the language of the body.

Our language from the depths of our hearts can imprison us. And those same words can set us free.

Knowing this, my goal became simple, create what would help me become a better dad. I was not good father at the beginning, I had to learn how to speak to become a better one.

How do I define success?

This is such a beautiful question because it is so individualized, but there are clusters of exploration where most want to hang out.

In essence, the big cluster of exploration is always about getting closer to truth and authenticity.

Am I becoming more like myself?

Am I using more of my gifts?

Even though the adventure begins within, it quickly extends beyond the self with these questions:

Can I affect change in the world from a place of sacrificial love?

Can I serve without attachment to outcomes?

Can I live beyond myself?

The quality of these answers help define the quality of life.

Going back to the original question, I think success is found in who you are becoming.

Why this might be different?

This isn't about quick fixes. While they may feel good, they don’t get at the reason why we are searching for short cuts in the first place.

It's about –Facing our demons head-on (yeah, it's scary, but that's how we grow)

Being committed to real, lasting change, and then doing the inner-work that is required

This isn't about becoming perfect. It's about becoming the best version of yourself – for you, for your kids, for your family.

If you can change the dialogue in your mind, you can change your life. Or simply put – your words = your life.

My hope is that we co-create enough space together so we get to ask the questions of why. Why is this pattern of self-sabotage coming up every time you feel this way or when these words are spoken here? Why do you feel this way in the body? And then with this understanding, we rewrite the story from that place of awareness.

We transform our lives through our words.

How do I help you balance career and family life?

I don’t think we find balance. We may find peace, but I don’t think we ever find balance in the coveted way of work-life balance.

A man is not meant to be balanced, but to always be a bit off put because it is in the course corrections, the finding of that center of gravity where men learn our lessons.

If we were in a perpetual state of balance, we would never learn the lessons we were meant to learn.

There is no balance, there is just the present moment and how I show up in it.

What payment methods do you accept?

I accept all major credit cards through my secured payment processor, Stripe

Nothing to fix, just something to understand . . .

Rick Kobayashi, PhD


Grateful dad. After I blew up my marriage, I finally figured out how to be a better man and father while putting the pieces back together. There was nothing to fix, just something to understand. Fixing implies

being broken. The only thing that broke was the inner barrier to the truth.


Co-founder of Space Builders with Chris Forrest.

Co-founder of The Unfolding with Max Schult.

My invitation is simple.

I am going this way.

Want to come?

The father’s heart

Patience flows like a river

Connection before correction

Ability to make difficult look easy

Strength wrapped around innocence

To love with, instead of because

You were made for this

The "I'm all in" dad

  • Get the secret sauce – The Art of Showing Up, Transformation Pyramid, and the Facilitation Hierarchy

  • 9 weeks of one-on-one guidance calls (to make sure all of this stuff sticks)

  • Weekly group calls and office hours in the Space Builders Hub

  • Bonus – Lifetime access to our summit


No contracts. No surprise fees.

A life well lived isn't all of a sudden

The slope usually goes unnoticed

Then, one day, you find yourself

at the summit of something that started long ago

Looking out, not out of breath but full of wonder

Maybe it's not about the mountain

Maybe it's the courage to climb

Frequently asked questions

Who do I support?

Skull Games is a 100% Veteran founded 501(c)(3) non-profit organization. Their team of professionals have worked in counter sex trafficking for over a decade.

Some people believe sex trafficking only happens in other countries or in “bad neighborhoods,” but it’s happening right here in our communities. Anyone with access to the internet and a phone can order a girl just like they would a pizza.

The men and women of Skull Games couldn’t just stay on the sidelines and watch this go unchecked.

Victims of sex trafficking deserve nothing short of our undivided attention.

What inspires me?

“The heart of a man is like deep water” Proverbs 20:5

I set out to discover what was in my heart.

When I discovered that we create from our words and the quality of our words determine the quality of our reality, I set out to understand the language of the body. Our language from the depths of our hearts can imprison us. And those same words can set us free.

Knowing this, my goal became simple, create what would help me become a better dad. I was not good father at the beginning, I had to learn how to speak to become a better one.

How do I define success?

This is such a beautiful question because it is so individualized, but there are clusters of exploration where most want to hang out.

In essence, the big cluster of exploration is always about getting closer to truth and authenticity.

Am I becoming more like myself?

Even though the adventure begins within, it quickly extends beyond the self with these questions:

Can I affect change in the world from a place of sacrificial love?

Can I serve without attachment to outcomes?

Can I live beyond myself?

The quality of these answers help define the quality of life.

Going back to the original question, I think success is found in who you are becoming.

Why this might be different?

This isn't about quick fixes. While they may feel good, they don’t get at the reason why we are searching for short cuts in the first place.

It's about –

Facing our demons head-on (yeah, it's scary, but that's how we grow)

Being committed to real, lasting change, and then doing the inner-work that is required

This isn't about becoming perfect. It's about becoming the best version of yourself – for you, for your kids, for your family.

If you can change the dialogue in your mind, you can change your life.

Or simply put – your words = your life.

My hope is that we co-create enough space together so we get to ask the questions of why. Why is this pattern of self-sabotage coming up every time you feel this way or when these words are spoken here? Why do you feel this way in the body? And then with this understanding, we rewrite the story from that place of awareness. We transform our lives through our words.

How do I help you balance career and family life?

I don’t think we find balance.

We may find peace, but I don’t think we will find balance in the coveted way of work-life balance.

A man is not meant to be balanced, but to always be a bit off put because it is in the course corrections, the finding of that center of gravity where men learn our lessons.

If we were in a perpetual state of balance, we would never learn the lessons we were meant to learn.

There is no balance, there is just the present moment and how I show up in it.

What payment methods do you accept?

I accept all major credit cards through my secured payment processor, Stripe

Nothing to fix, just something to understand . . .

Rick Kobayashi, PhD


Grateful dad. After I blew up my marriage, I finally figured out how to be a better man and father while putting the pieces back together. There was nothing to fix, just something to understand. Fixing implies being broken. The only thing that broke was the inner barrier to the truth.


Co-founder of Space Builders with Chris Forrest.

Co-founder of The Unfolding with Max Schult.

My invitation is simple.

I am going this way.

Want to come?

Thank you to the sponsors of our summit

Your generosity made this summit happen

Click to play the video

When you look beyond the edges of your heart space, do you see friend or foe?

Thank you to the sponsors of our summit

Your generosity made this summit happen

Click to play the video

When you look beyond the edges of your heart space, do you see friend or foe?

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